The Lantern Festival is also known as the Valentine’s Day in the East. In Malaysia, there is a custom of tossing tangerines on the Lantern Festival. Single girls will go to the river or lake to throw tandoori on this day, while single boys will go to tandoori on this day, hoping to get a good marriage.
Tips for tossing tangerines (for girls)
1. Attend the official association or official tossing event
Choose an official event organized by a large association, a local village group, or an official organization, but do not go to an event where the organizer is unknown.
2. Meet friends for a toss or date
Young girls can ask their girlfriends or male friends to attend the tossing event together, so that they can look out for each other, and people with bad intentions will not dare to approach. And if you get in touch with the man on the spot, you can also go to the date together with your friends and have tea and chat.
3. sign your name instead of your real name
When you write your contact information on the top of the tangerine, you do not need to write your full name, you can use a nickname, English name or alias.
4. you can use other contact information instead of your phone number
If you don’t want to disclose your phone number, you can write your email, or social networking site, or smart phone communication software, such as Facebook, WeChat, etc.
5. Confirm the person’s identity and appearance
If the other party contacts you, you can ask him for more personal information to confirm his identity, such as: real name, age, occupation, etc. If the other party is vague and can not provide his real name, then you can directly cut off the contact. If the other party is well-intentioned, you should confirm whether the other party is alone on the date or accompanied by a friend.
* Remark.
There are still many ways to conceal your identity, or to give you the real identity of the miscreant, so girls should be careful.
6. meet in a crowded and safe place
Do not choose a dark place to meet, you can find a lot of people, bright places or restaurants, do not go to nightclubs or bars.
7. Contact afterwards
If you choose not to meet on the spot, you can use email or other communication software, social networking sites, etc. to contact each other afterwards, but this is also to pay attention to safety and stay alert, it is best to let your friends or relatives know that you contact each other, and patiently observe each other, and do not rush to meet. If you want to meet up later, you should also be safe and go to a safe place with your friends and relatives.
8. choose not to contact
Of course, if you just want to feel the atmosphere of the Lantern Festival and Valentine’s Day, and pray for good karma in the future, then you do not need to leave any contact information or can refuse each other at the moment.
How to get a tangerine (for guys)
1. Meet friends to attend
If a guy attends this kind of event alone, it will make people suspicious and wary, meet a few friends (but not too many, it will scare people), it is best to have female friends together, so the woman will be more at ease.
2. Use your real name
Why is it recommended for guys to use their real names instead? Because so the woman can check your identity. But do not feel unfair Oh, to take the initiative to ask girls, sincerity and security is very important.
3. honest communication
If the scene to contact each other, you can tell each other where you are, is with friends to come together, ask each other whether there is a willingness to continue communication or meet, if both sides have friends to accompany, then you can find a safe place to meet.
4. starting with a friend mentality
If you have a girlfriend, it’s easy to be anxious, but if you have a friend, you’ll be more relaxed and comfortable in your communication, and you can chat more. If you don’t meet on the spot, you can keep in touch later with a friend mentality and let everything go.
5. maintain gentlemanly manners
Contact with the woman or contact, please maintain a gentlemanly manner, in case the other party is not interested in you or refused to contact again, but also politely say goodbye to each other and wish each other.
