In our life, we are always faced with choices. Choose the right, all the way smoothly, choose the inappropriate, and all the way twists and turns; At the same time, you can’t get what you like and enjoy at the same time, because fish and bear’s paw can never be owned at the same time. It’s hard to choose, but once you choose it, it will last for a lifetime, so why not choose what you like?
Life is like a blank sheet of paper, and the chip you choose is the background colour. With the background, you can create extraordinary works. It’s the same with life. Only when you choose, you will have subsequent joys. In the law of people’s thinking, taking what as the core will lead to a different life. If you put your family first, you will lose your beautiful life. People who pursue freedom need to give up stability and stability. Constant choice, constant trade-offs, the cost of choice, in order to get something, we have to give up other things. When you choose it, it will lead you to the destination of the answer, and let you continue to write the next story.
When you have more choices than you want, you have to be mentally prepared.
From the urgent mood to the slow future, life is full of choices and uncertainties, but the multiple-choice questions in daily life are so difficult, and there are many things to consider, which ultimately leads us to be unable to make satisfactory decisions. Every time we make a choice, we have a lingering fear, because this choice may affect the development of many things, and the influence of every link is interlocking.
I wonder if you have this idea? When we make choices for ourselves, our inner thoughts often become conservative and anxious, because we always think too much. In the face of the truest thoughts, we tend to take care of the overall situation and consider other people’s views on us, which blinds our innermost desire. It is in this way that we are unhappy, but we are unable to say it without being bored, and we sink ourselves deeper and deeper into such adversity, and we often can’t fathom our true colours.
Don’t think about what you don’t have, think of what you have.
If you have been wavering before making a decision, it means that you value this multiple-choice question very much. Of course, there may be more than 1-2 answers that make you feel excited. At this time, you might as well list what you have and what you want? Then compare the contents on both sides, and ask yourself what you want most on the premise of putting aside all the thorns. As soon as the answer appears in your mind, choose it, without leaving any hesitation, which may be beneficial.
For example, there is always a “must-do list” every day. If there are some unfinished things left after nightfall, then take this kind of “worry” to sleep, and then stay up all night day after day, isn’t the sacrifice even greater? The rules of choice are the same. The longer you hesitate, the greater your doubts. This is a “taboo”, but also a “key”, which will eventually destroy you. It will only lead to things dragging on and pestering you forever. This taste is very uncomfortable.
Insight into everything from the perspective of a third party to find the final answer.
When facing multiple-choice questions, you can not only find a reliable person to listen to suggestions but also try to look at the multiple-choice questions from the perspective of a “third party”. They can be your friends, teachers, family members and even pen-pals, and try to imagine what suggestions they will give with their own thinking as “bystanders”. With this extension of thinking transformation, we may be able to get rid of our tangled heads and find the final answer with this fighting spirit.
If you think from the perspective of a “third party”, you can first assume that it is “someone else’s problem” and give some suggestions. In this way, you may be able to look at something from a moral and rational point of view, instead of being hysterical in a sentimental way, which will have the opposite effect, and even make yourself miserable.
The next time you are faced with a difficult choice, you should clear your mind, give yourself plenty of time to think, and then make a final decision. Remember, every decision will affect the rest of our lives. We only live once. If you want to choose, you must follow your own wishes, rather than thinking from the moral high ground. Presumably, one day in the future, you will really understand the definition of “choose what you like, love what you choose”!
