When we were young, we were always taught to be outstanding beings. If you don’t really understand what the future is, you have to prepare gorgeous coats for the future in a hurry. How many of the goals and dreams set at that time can stand the test and really grow up with us?
Is being an ordinary adult a coward who compromises his life?
Shoes can be tailored, but dreams are like assembly line products, which are applied to different souls in a unified manner.
Children who grow up in Asia may have different family cultures, but there is always a striking similarity in their childhood, that is, they must have big dreams when they were young. The old people always use actions and words to influence our way of thinking subtly. From an early age, they taught us to be a person who contributes to society when we grow up, set up lofty dreams and make unremitting efforts to realize our dreams.
However, no one really understands that working hard for an inappropriate dream is like wearing inappropriate shoes and running with all your strength, and most of them are in vain. Dreams that is really worth going all out should be tailored to our personality and soul. Only by moving towards the goal that suits you, can you have a smooth wind. There may be some setbacks in the process, but it is generally handy.
In the eyes of others, how many of the life winning groups are happy when they are alone behind closed doors? We all know the answer, but we are not willing to poke the truth.
In the age of fast food culture, people have gradually forgotten how to explore things deeply. We can connect knowledge through audio and video, so we don’t want to explore slowly from pictures and words. Because you can search for information with one click, you won’t spend time extracting knowledge from the book. People’s communication also ends with mutual praise by putting up beautiful photos on social media. In the virtual world, there are thousands of friends, but in reality, nobody can tell the truth.
To prop up the famous cars and luxury houses that are young and symbolic in others’ eyes is to dig the east wall to make up for the western wall. The thickness of the wallet determines the firmness of love, and even the people on the pillow have strange souls. Envy others for their sweet love, but they are not willing to take the time to manage their budding feelings. There are no beautiful things that can be done overnight, and princes and princesses have their own troubles, which just don’t show up in the eyes of the public.
Finally, we found that those who reap happiness are often ordinary and unremarkable people, who silently pay for the future and reap the fruits of their efforts in a down-to-earth manner.
Everyone pursues a diagonal life, but there are not many people who can live a happy and full life.
The highly developed society has cultivated our subconscious mind that we always put the maximum benefit first. When a person grows up, how much-untapped potential is there? How many talents have not been discovered? We are just like sugar cane, waiting in line to squeeze life until the final value is drained. When the last drop of essence was squeezed out of the shrivelled soul, many people still alluded to regret that their endurance was too weak to reach the ideal standard.
Perhaps some people are born to be elites, who always have inexhaustible “energy” and can try their best to reach the peak of their lives. However, most people are just self-hypnotic elites, unable to accept their own ordinary, trying hard to do everything well, but they can’t reach the shore at both ends, so it’s not bad to be able to do things.
If the standard is set at the height of one’s own ability from the beginning, happiness will be greatly improved.
Summary
Ordinary can never go wrong. What is wrong is that we are unwilling to be ordinary and can’t learn the charm of the ordinary. Ordinary does not represent small. Every gear is the hero of the great wheel of the turning era, and there is no need to compare who is greater than who.
